When it Comes to Buying Rings, Size Doesn't Matter Or Does It?

When you have reached that point in your relationship when you are now looking to buy your new love a ring, it is serious business for you or it should be, shouldn't it. I guess that all depends on you, your heart, and the occasion for which you have decided to dedicate this occasion.

I guess at this point in your life you have serious affection, admiration, and love for the woman that you are thinking about buying a new ring for and just because you have decided to buy a ring doesn't necessary mean engagement, but you better be clear of your intentions before you pull out a ring because women think a lot faster than men and before you have realized that she thought one thing when your intentions were another, you better go to the drawing board and map out the plan, drop her some hints of what this is not, or write your intentions on your forehead as a warning sign.

How do you mentally develop a plan to give a woman a ring without saying engagement, or how do you propose if those are your intentions, or how do you say Iwant to be more than your friend using a ring as a gesture of love.

There are so many ways to present a ring to a woman, but the end result or the natural reaction must be understood by both you and her before you take action. When buying a ring, does the size matter? Some women say yes and others say no so you have a 50/50 chance of getting it right the first time. However, the size isn't the only thing you have to worry about. You also have to decide on the occasion so that there are no mix signals or misunderstandings. If this is a friendship wanting more occasion then of course size doesn't matter as you are not beginning the serious phase of your relationship and are sending a message to her that maybe there is a future where Isee me and you going places together.

So in this case, size doesn't matter or does it? Will she say, "that is what you think of me or this is how you show me how much you love me"? Iam playing devils advocate, but when you hand her the small gesture of love, will you get a big kiss for making the gesture that you want more in your relationship or will you get a look of disappointment. You know that look, when she smiles slightly, but she doesn't want to hurt your feelings so she plays along with the emotional moment until she gets with her friends. This is the case for some, but not all as there are some really great angels out there in the world whose only concern is being loved by someone no matter the ring size.

Does a bigger ring signifies more love or a smaller ring signifies less love? Ithink they both send the same message, but a man that swings for the fence will definitely be the man of the hour and will know because his woman will not stop talking about the big gift she received. On the other hand, a woman who has just received a small ring will probably change the subject or maybe not as not all women place such high value on material things. However, I just don't see a woman bragging to her friends about a small ring that she just received as she can predict their reaction.

So to answer the question, does size matter in a ring? Ithink it has to from a certain perspective because most women dream of the day when they are presented a ring from their loved one and no matter the occasion whether love, engagement, wedding, or friendship, the natural reaction is always different with each size. Furthermore, it is her first ring and you as a man must understand that the bigger the size the greater the reaction and most importantly, she may see this as you signaling to her that your love for her is worth every penny that you put in purchasing the big ring.

On the flip side of this coin, a woman who cherishes love over the size of her ring will give an equal reaction as if she has just received the biggest ring in the world because in her heart the greatest reward is you.

Does it matter if you present a woman a big or small ring? I guess the person that has that answer is you, the man deciding to buy the ring and your knowledge of the woman that you are buying the ring for. If she truly loves you, then size want matter much, but as a man, you must also take into consideration that she chose you and that gesture is greater than anything in the world and should be rewarded with a nice size ring. It doesn't have to be large or small, but somewhere in the middle as a thank you note for her choosing you.